Sunday, March 27, 2011

Blog 7 Language

I teach at the Jack E. Singley Academy. Our school strives to prepare our students with the tools to enter the professional world, or college, and succeed in either environment. Every Wednesday we have "Dress for Success," this is when the students wear attire that would be suitable for an interview. This gets the students familiar with the proper dress for the real world so when it is time for them to find a job, they know what the employer's expectations are and they can exceed these expectations. "Dress for Success" is not mandated, students do not get in trouble for not dressing in professional clothes, but it is highly enouraged and increases their Employability Skills grade at the end of each six-weeks. "Dress for Success" is preparing these students for a form of nonverbal communication. Making a positive first impression is key to finding success in the professional world, and someone's appearance is one factor in making a first impression. Having the correct attire for the situation communicates to the employer that they are professional, responsible, and the right person for the job. Nonverbal communication is an unspoken language that includes appearance, handshake, eye contact, and body language. Each of these aspects sends a message to the other person and it the basis for creating a positive first impression. The teachers at my school attempt to convey this message to our students about how to make a lasting positive first impression, but some students do not listen. It takes 30 seconds to make a first impression and 20 additional positive meetings to undo a negative impression. To be successful after high school, students need to learn the language of nonverbal communication.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Blog #6: "A Thousand Splendid Suns"

Our group is reading A Thousand Splendid Suns for our book club. There are many topics from our diverse learners class that are strong themes in the book. A Thousand Splendid Suns is about two Afgan women married to an abusive man and what happens to these women as they struggle to free themselves.



Strong themes throughout the book are religion and gender. Women's rights is almost nonexistent in this book and in the country. Women are forced to marry at very young ages and end their education to take care of their new husbands. Men are the rulers of the house and make all the decisions and consequences. Police are rarely involved in domestic issues and the men are free to punish the their wives however they desire. Reading this novel makes me appreciate my life and all its freedoms. It also makes me appreciate the man I have chosen to be part of my life and the respect he shows me everyday.



We recently discussed refugees during class. Students with similar backgrounds as the women in the novel could be in our classroom. We will never know for sure, but we need to be sensitive of the diverse backgrounds of our students and their histories to which we cannot relate. Teachers cannot assume all our students know certain parts of our culture because they may not have been exposed to it or have not lived here all their lives.



Religion is another prevalent theme in the book. The Islamic religion controls many aspects in the lives of the Muslim community in A Thousand Splendid Suns, including empowering the male. This is a vast difference from The United States where we have freedom of religion. It is also shocking to realize this lifestyle continues today in middleastern countries. A Thousand Slendid Suns chronicles the treatment of women in Afganistan today.



Overall, A Thousand Splendid Suns makes the reader feel sorrow for the women who endure that lifestyle today and grateful for the liberties that women have today in many other countries around the world.

Blog 5: Exceptionality

There are many types of exceptionality and each comes with its own challenges and stereotypes. Students placed in special education programs around the country are labeled with learning inabilities that will follow them throughout their educational career. Students can also be placed in GT programs and receive special instruction to suit their specific learning styles. Of the two programs previously mentioned, which do you think carries a negative connotation?

This label of special education remains in the student's record and affects their education path. Inclusion is one way to provide the special education that students might need, while also giving them the general education environment that can be so beneficial. Inclusion teachers are provided to support the student and the general education teacher during their time in that classroom. This extra support maintains consistency for all students and a high level of productivity.

Students with Asperger's syndrome or mild mental retardation can still function well in a general education, but it takes more work and patients on the part of the teacher. This is the factor that is unappealing to many educators and the reason many shy away from taking on the special needs students. All students need to be in the environment that is least restrictive, but it is the extra work this brings that causes these students to be placed in restrictive environments where their learning needs are not being met. I agree that it can be a struggle to teach students with such a broad spectrum of learning needs, but that is the job, to educate and not discriminate.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Blog #4: Sexual Orientation and Gender

It was interesting to hear about the origin of homosexuality and how genes, hormones, and birth order play a pivotal role. I found birth order particularily interesting because the odds of having a homosexual son increase the more older brothers he has.

I loved the discussions we had during class and how both sides of each question were pontificated. I was a judge and automatically I had my thoughts about each question and wanted to side with a certain group, but listening to the justifications of each made me approach my views differently and more openly. I was not so narrow minded in each question because the two sides gave me fresh ideas about each perspective. In theory, doing this democracy activity in the classroom would prove beneficial because it provides the opportunity for students to voice their opinion and also enlighten them about other viewpoints. In reality, I do not know how well the activity would work because the questions are very sensitive and even seniors in high school would have a difficult time taking a stance on this topics in front of their peers.

This does raise an important issue because gender and sexual orientation are discussed in schools, but not in the classroom with the aide of an adult to guide the conversations. Sexual orientation and gender are constantly gossiped about among friends in the hallways. Stereotypes are establisted immediately and rumors start to generate. If these conversations were moved into the classroom, an environment of acceptance could be established at the school and provide a safe and comfortable learning environment for every student. These converstations are difficult because students are reluctant to express their true feelings and opinions in front of peers. How do we start these tough conversations?

Another stereotype educators need to try and break is the inequality between men and women. Looking at the magazines in class, it did not matter if it was published for men or women, the majority of the pages had the sexual exploitation of women. Beautiful women were amilessly lying on a bed being beautiful, or men were covetting the sexiest woman. The girls in our classes see the images that the media portrays of women and aspire to it, the boys aspire to be with it. Both have inaccurate standards that will rarely be met. This is the basis of low self-esteem and an issue that educators need to combat. I try to be a role model to my female students by demonstrating that not every woman looks like that. Many times the students do not see me as a real woman, but only their teacher and I do not count. Nevertheless, I try to provide that positive female figure that proves not all women need to look like a model from a magazine to be happy and successful.